Sure, wild, crazy sex might keep your love life exciting, but if your goal is to really learn what works for you, keeping it simple to start is key. When you want to climax, the simplest positions are often also the best positions, and with a few modifications, you can make them even more orgasm inducing than they already are. To help you get there, here some sex positions aimed at making your orgasm the main event.
1. The Up and Over:
Missionary position will never be the same again. While on your back, put a pillow under your butt, lift your hips, and bring your legs up and back toward your shoulders, as though you’re folding in half. This move allows your partner better ease of thrusting and deeper penetration – a perk for both of you. But consider this a warm-up – you’re getting yourself primed for a more intense orgasm. Once you feel like you’re getting into a groove, put your legs down and have him get into coital-alignment-technique (CAT) position.
2. The Down but Not Out:
You’ve probably tried an all-fours pose before, and while doggy style is inarguably hotter than hot, in order to make it extra orgasmic, you need to modify it a bit. Lie on your stomach, lifting your butt slightly so he can enter you. Your partner can prop himself up with his hands in a push-up position or lie on top of you. Not only does this facedown configuration provide increased friction as he moves in and out, but you can gently grind your clitoral area against the bed as well.
3. The Lusty Leg Wrap:
With all the twisting and bending that goes on, sometimes sex can feel more like your cardio day at the gym than something designed to get you off. That’s why it’s important to have at least one relaxed orgasm-inducing position in your repertoire. Such as this: While you’re on your back, he should lie on his side, turned toward you. Swing both legs over his hips and thighs, making a bridge over them. Then, just let him gently thrust into you. If it takes you a while to climax, this pose is ideal. It’s not very aerobic, so the sex can go on for a long time without either of you tiring out.
4. On Top of the World:
Woman-on-top tends to be a go-to for achieving orgasm, and for good reason. It allows you to dictate the pace and depth of thrusting, but mainly, you have easy access to your clitoris. You can touch it, have him touch it, or rub against his pubic bone to achieve orgasm. But you can up the ante by literally pulling a 180. Twist around so you’re pointed toward his feet in reverse cowgirl position. Instead of straddling him, put your legs together, feet flat between his legs.